In the name of Allah (s.w.t) the most Beneficent and Merciful
Peace be upon Mohammad e Mustafa and his progeny
للّهُمّ صَلّ عَلَى مُحَمّدٍ وَآلِ مُحَمّدٍ
Wedding dates of Syeda Farhana Fatima Abedi Sallamahu
Fazl Abbas and Dastarkhan of Imam Hasan from Maghrib till 10:30 pm
2. Thursday
11th May 2023 (21st Shawwal, 1444 Hijri) Sainak- Nazar of
Maula Mushkil Kusha Ali and Bibi Fatima Zehra from Maghrib till 10:30pm
3. Monday 15th May 2023 (25th
Shawwal, 1444 Hijri) Martyrdom of Imam Jaffer e Sadiq (Majlis e Aza) Time: 5:00 pm
4. Wednesday, 17th May,2023 (27th Shawwal, 1444 Hijri) Making trays for Sanchak.
5. Thursday
18th May 2023 (28th Shawwal, 1444 Hijri) to Qabrastan to
recite Surah e Fateha for our Marhoomeen.
6. Friday
19th May 2023 (29th Shawwal, 1444 Hijri) Manje- Time: 7:30
Pm
Venue: Home sweet home Flat no: 302-303,Pride Residency.
7. Sunday
21st May 2023 (1st Thul-Qidah 1444 Hijri) Birthday of
Bibi Masooma e Qum-
Sanchak-mehndi – 7:30
pm
8. Monday
22nd May 2023 (2nd Thul-Qidah 1444 Hijri) –
Alhamdulillah- Nikah and Rukhsati at Paigah Gardens, Pattigadda, Begumpet
Time:
Nikah- 7:30 pm Dinner: 8:00
pm Rukhsati- 9:00 pm
9. Tuesday
23rd May 2023 (3rd Thul-Qidah 1444 Hijri) -Chowthi: Time: 12:30 pm
At Deewan Banquets, Chaderghat, Hyderabad.
10. Thursday
25th May 2023 (5th Thul-Qidah 1444 Hijri) – Valima: Time:
8:30 pm followed by dinner at A.K.S Convention, Hall No.71 St. John Church
Road, Shivaji Nagar Bangalore, Karnataka, 560051
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Wedding
cards must be printed and distributed among relatives and friends.
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List of
things to be done on Hazari of Hazrat e Abul Fazl Abbas and Dastarkhan of Imam
Hasan
1. 5 types of fruits (any)
2. Dry fruits (Kaju, Badam, Anjeer, Khajoor,
Akhrot
3. Khalakhan or any other sweet
4. Khorma
5. Naan
6. Salad
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List of
things to be done on Sainak of Maula Mushkil Kusha Ali and Bibi Fatima
1. 14 Scarves or 14 blouse pieces
2. 14 pairs of Bangles (Chudiyaan)
3. One complete dress or complete Saree set with
blouse and petticoat (for deserving person)
4. One small mirror
5. One comb
6. One Talcum Powder
7. One small coconut oil bottle
8. Mehndi
9. Kheer Puri
10.
Dry fruits (Kaju, Badam, Anjeer, Khajoor, Akhrot)
11.
Khubuli and Dahi ki chutney
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List of
things to be done in Majalis e Aza
1.
Farsh
2.
Loudspeaker
3.
Tabarrok
4.
Gift or money to
the Maulana, Marsiya khan, Noha khan
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List of
things to be done in Manje (Haldi)
Mandap must be installed in the
hall as an occasion of joy for Rasm in the name of Bibi Fatima Zehra
Flower Decorator:
1.
Decoration
of flowers in Dalan (Hall)
2.
Garland
and complete set of head flowers, Tika of flowers, bangles of flowers and head
gear of flowers for Fatima.
3.
12
garlands for the ladies who recite Jashn.
Rasm tray:
1. Chiksa 2. Haldi 3. Chowba
(grated coconut)
4. Misri 5. Sandal 6. pan
(betel leaves) - 14
7. Badi Chaliya -7 8. Kathuri with milk 9. Green Grass
Ceremonies
Part I
1.
Small Majlis in
the afternoon
2.
Jashn Majlis in
the Afternoon
3.
After Jashn Rasm
of Dulhan
4. Kathuri and
green grass for rasm
5. Five or seven
suhagan will do the rasm.
6. Dulhan will be
taken to the bathroom under the shade of Holy Quran
7.
After she takes
bath let her come outside the Bathroom under the shade of the Holy Quran with a
loving person who is also leading a happy marital life. Dulhan should be draped
in red chadar while bringing from the bathroom.
Part II
8.
Main Manje in the evening when all the relatives come.
9.
Majlis in the
evening
10.
Jashn in the evening
i) Garlanding of the reciters ii) Distribution
of chocolates III) Distribution of Sweets or
Laddu or Gulgule
(Sweet Bhajiye) + Malida Laddu
11.
Gulposhi
(Garlanding) of the Dulhan
12.
Dinner
Sanchak-Mehndi: These
are two functions celebrated on the same day.
These days both the parties are taking a function hall and celebrating
the function at one place. Dividing the
total amount into two.
List of things to be done in Sanchak- Mehndi (Shukrana)
1.
Flowers
for Sanchak
a)
Boys side: One complete set of flowers i.e., Garland,
Hand flower bracelets, head Small Sehra for bride – For Zahara
b)
Gajre: 20 for ladies – For Zahara
c)
Welcome haar by girl’s side to 75 guests who will be
coming from boys’ side i.e., both Mardana and Zanana must be garlanded. For
Farhat
Flowers for Mehndi
d)
Girl’s side: One complete set of flowers i.e., Big
Garland for Bridegroom, Sehra {Small), Hand Bracelets. - For Farhat
e)
Hand bracelets for ladies – 20 -for Farhat
2.
Rasm
Tray
1. Chiksa 2. Haldi 3. Chowba (grated coconut)
4. Misri 5.
Sandal
6. pan (betel leaves) - 14
7. Badi Chaliya -7 8. Rasm ki chowki 9.Dulha ke do special pan (khilone) Panwala will make
3. Clothes Trays for Groom: 9 -11 Trays
1.
Kurta Pyjama (of good Make) 2. Jainamaz and Namaz ki Topi
3. (5-6) Shirts and Trouser 4. Dulha’s Sherwani of Nikah and Reception
5. Valima Suit 6. Shoes and
Chappal
7. Hammam ka Samaan (i.e., Towel
Gown, Shaving Set
8. Flowers 9. Fruits 10.
Sweets
11. Dry Fruits (optional)
12. Imam e Zamin and Kangan for
Dulha, triangle shape Imam e Zamin for Mehendi Rasm
4. Sanchak of Dulhan (Fatima)
1. Rasm of Dulhan (Fatima) by Groom’s side
2. Flower Garlanding by Groom’s side
3. Haldi Chiksa Lagate (Will apply Haldi
and Chiksa)
4. Zewar Pinnate (Jadawi Lasha Karan
Phool, Complete set)
5. Imam e Zamin aur Kangan
Bandhte Dulhan ko by grooms’ side
Note:
If the Sanchak -Mehndi Rasm is done at the venue of Dulhan and Dulha then they
will make the arrangement of food in their respective houses for their
relatives and friends and give snacks to Dulha and Dulhan’s side. In Sanchak Dulha (Groom’s relatives come to
Bride’s home. In Mehndi, Bride’s
relatives go to Dulha’s home.
If
the Sanchak – Mehndi Rasm is done together by both Groom and Bride’s side
together at a Banquet Hall or Marriage Hall than first Sanchak Rasm (Rasm of
Bride by Grooms side relatives) followed by dinner and then Mehndi Rasm (Rasm
of Groom by Bride’s side relatives)
5. Mehndi Rasm
1.
Applying chiksa and Haldi (By Fatima’s side)
2. Garlanding of Dulha by mother/elder person of
family
3. Give Naik to Dulha (Rs. 5000/-) or can
give Angothi
5. Take out Sadqua
6. Other close six ladies will do the Rasm
7. Rasm by Saali (Brides younger sister)
·
A red chadar is
placed between Dulha and bride’s sister and cousins.
·
She will ask
Naik. (Money)
·
A jovial fight
will occur.
·
Dulha agrees to
give Naik.
·
Saali (Bride’s
sister) will apply Mehndi to Groom on his right-hand little finger.
·
Then, tie an Imam Zamin of
triangular shape on the applied finger.
·
And place (Pahnate) an Angothi (ring)
on his finger.
Nikah Day: List of things to be taken to Marriage Hall on Nikah and
Reception of Dulhan
1.
Naik for Vakil
2.
Mirror
3.
Quran
4.
Madare ki Chadar
5.
Chawal (raw rice)
6.
Nikah ka Tiffin
7.
Small hamper of snacks and flowers for Fatima (fairy) to
be placed
in her room.
8.
Sufra: Sweets, Candles, Cheese, Mithai, Fruits: (6-10 are
optional.
For nazar of Imam e Zamana on the stage of Dulhan)
9. Flowers:
Sehra, full set of flowers for bride and groom
At Shaadi Khana
1.
When Dulha arrives at the gate. Brothers of Dulhan close
the gate
and ask for Naik from Dulha. He has to give Naik and then they
open the gate.
2.
Dulha is taken to Dulhan section. A Madara chadar is kept in
between Dulha Dulhan and five times Dulha
Dulhan throw rice
on each other’s head and their faces are
shown to each other
before Nikah to make sure that they agree
to marry each other.
(Last
minute reconfirmation)
3.
Nikah Starts.
Signatures of Dulhan are taken first than
Signatures of the groom are taken. Two witnesses have to sign.
4.
Give Naik to Vakil or the person who recites Segeh (Rs. 2500/-)
Both sides mean Rs.5000/-
5.
Dulha people distribute Bari: which comprises of Badam,
Kaju,
Kishmish.
6.
While Nikah Segeh are carried on some unmarried girls
from
Dulha’s side grind Misri on the head
of Dulhan. i.e., they take
two pieces of Misri and hold them in
their hands and grind on
each other so that Misri is sprinkled on the
head of Dulha. They
all recite durood (Allah Humma Salle Ala
Mohammadin wa ale
Mohammad)
7.
After Nikah Dinner is served to the guests
8.
Jalwa takes place.
9.
In Jalwa Dulha (Haider) is brought into the ladies’
section by
brothers and male relatives of
Dulha. Then, Dulha and Dulhan
are made to sit opposite to each other. Madara chadar is placed
on their heads.
10.
First Quran is showed to both Dulha and Dulhan (Surah e
Yousuf
is opened and shown to them)
11.
Then mirror is placed in between them and they should see
each
other’s image in the mirror and recite Allah Humma
Salle Ala
Mohammadin Wa Ale Mohammad.
12.
Then Misri is placed on the right shoulder and Dulha has
to eat,
then Misri is placed on the left
shoulder then Dulha has to eat
the Misri (thrice this process is
repeated.
13.
After Jalwa both the Dulha and Dulhan are made to sit on
the
chairs
and are garlanded by the parents or elders of both the
sides.
14.
While leaving for home or hotel room Dulhan’s brother
will hold
Quran
on the head of the Dulhan. Father or a
relative of the
Dulhan
will recite the Azaan loudly standing beside the car or
vehicle on which the Dulha – Dulhan are
sitting.
15.
Before leaving for the hotel room or home both Dulha and
Dulhan’s Sadqua should be taken
out.
16.
Both should be taken to Imam Bargah (In Hyderabad we usually
take them to Sar Touq ka Alawa.
Chowthi Day
1. Take mithai (1Kg) to Dulha’s home with
brothers and younger cousins.
2. Dulha people do Mauh Dikhayi rasm and then give
some gift to Dulhan.
3. Dulhan relatives bring back Dulhan to her
home.
List of things to be taken on Chowthi day
1.
Flowers (Complete
set for both Dulha and Dulhan + chadiyan
sticks)
2.
Fruits-5 types
3.
Naik: money 5000
or gift like watch, mobile phone, extreme is
laptop
·
Things
to be done on Chowthi: Dinner has to be arranged by Dulhan’s
father or close relative.
·
Both Dulha and
Dulhan has to be garlanded by both the sides
·
Naik has to be
given to Dulha by Dulhan’s father or close relative.
Valima Day
1.
Flowers: two
sets for both Dulha and Dulhan
2.
Naik or gift for
Dulha
Method: This is Dulha’s (Haider’s) side people’s
function. It is done to celebrate the
consumption of marriage by Dulha and Dulhan.
After
Dinner both Dulha and Dulhan are garlanded
Khatam Shad
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